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Sep. 8th, 2017 07:11 amWent shopping with Marie and Sam yesterday, for stuff for a going-away party Marie will be having tonight.
Also managed last night to watch an episode of Lucky Star with Marie and her roommates. Brian came and joined in halfway through, and then the four of them started a round of The Settlers of Catan. I sat by and followed along, and so did Sam when he came over shortly before I lost track of things and headed back to Brian's place.
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In light of a conversation I should not have had with Chelle (not describing the details here), one thing Brian and Mom have helped me place a finger on so far, was the feeling one gets when they discover somewhere someone else is willing to tread when it's something the former had reason to believe otherwise.
What I shouldn't have done, though, was put Chelle through some kind of litmus test. Even if what one actually presents isn't inherently offensive to the recipient, the act itself is still insulting.
Basically, when in doubt, ask, but only if you have any particular reason to.
Also managed last night to watch an episode of Lucky Star with Marie and her roommates. Brian came and joined in halfway through, and then the four of them started a round of The Settlers of Catan. I sat by and followed along, and so did Sam when he came over shortly before I lost track of things and headed back to Brian's place.
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In light of a conversation I should not have had with Chelle (not describing the details here), one thing Brian and Mom have helped me place a finger on so far, was the feeling one gets when they discover somewhere someone else is willing to tread when it's something the former had reason to believe otherwise.
What I shouldn't have done, though, was put Chelle through some kind of litmus test. Even if what one actually presents isn't inherently offensive to the recipient, the act itself is still insulting.
Basically, when in doubt, ask, but only if you have any particular reason to.